And while I’m not an expert in herpes, per se, I do know a number of people who have it, and continue to lead rich, happy, limitless dating lives. There was no way to indisputably determine who gave Rossiter HPV, but because she only had to prove that it was more likely than not that her ex was the one who infected her, she was able to win her case without solid evidence. If you have proof that your former boyfriend knew he had herpes before he met you and did not advise you of this fact before you engaged in unprotected sexual relations, you should consult with a personal injury attorney about your situation and the best course to take. While a lawsuit is possible in these cases, many times the people who transmitted the disease are jailed, so your chances of collecting anything are negligible. Furthermore, he may have not known he was infected – she may have had it and he thought he never got it from her. You want him to leave but still pay? If Billy had HSV2 and you asked him before you were intimate and he disclosed he didn’t have any type of std and was tested and you went ahead and had intercourse, you consented to accept his answer not knowing it to be true or false.
He gave me his number. If you have sexual intercourse knowing you are infected with HIV you commit a first-degree felony offense. Had he told me that he had an exposure to someone with Herpes (which he flat out denied) then it would have been truly my decision to proceed with unprotected sex, which I obviously would not have since I was adamant about it thinking that he was STD free. Before that I was only with my boyfriend at that time, who is negative (just recently tested). If not. For most people, the anxiety over not telling your partner you have herpes is worse than the telling itself. Well I found out I had Herpes Oct 2010, from my boyfriend from only a month, I didn’t mentioned anything since I was waiting on him to tell me.
Only after my boyfriend pressuring her to tell him the whole truth (that she knew she had it) she did. One of the most difficult things I had to do was call former boyfriends I may have exposed (think it was dormant in my system for quite sometime, I honestly did not know). Remember, it is possible you can pass the herpes virus on even if you didn’t have a cold sore present at the time of contact. That I now know he has herpes seems to explain a lot of the distancing behavior, but I wish he had been open and honest with me. Then a few days ago. He didn’t care about my welfare, but he does care about his money, so I will seek financial reparations for the emotional damage (worried about being rejected by future partners, worried about spreading it to future partners, worried about spreadung it to other parts of my body (I already spread it to my nose without doing anything sexual whatsoever, worried about when I get pregnant and possibly spreading it to my unborn child) and the physical damage (I am on daily suppressive therapy and even generic Valtrex is close to 500 a month). These are really difficult questions for people to answer, particularly for highly stigmatized STDs like HIV and herpes.
I explained how I got it through my ex boyfriend of 7 years (who didn’t know he had it because he never goes to the doctor) and said I was really sorry for not giving him the choice. My boyfriend had trinna have given it to me but he swears he didnt he even went to go get checked he and I’ve been reading about it and the diffrent ways to get it. My boyfriend that gave me herpes broke up with me for another girl, and is’nt going to tell her either that he has it. If you had no idea he had it and found out after it all depends on what STD was given to you HIV and herpes you can sue for others are more hard to sue over but if you have gotten the less life threatening one (s) you can sue for Emotional stress. As most of my calls here at ASHA are about genital herpes, I thought I’d clear the air. This is necessary for me to be paid for my work and so that I can get credit for assisting you. Herpes can only be passed through direct skin-to-skin contact with the infected area such as kissing, oral sex, genital-to-genital rubbing, vaginal, and anal sex.
Now with this new guy, I didn’t have the nerve to tell him and now it is getting bigger than I can manage. He had to have known that he had it, and now I feel so betrayed that he didn’t tell me before we did anything. Though he admitted to seeing Sasha and another woman at the start of their relationship, he said he didn’t tell Rossiter to get tested for HPV the day after their first night together. Leaving a bonus and positive feedback is not required, but doing so is certainly appreciated! Said an outbreak usually occurs within 2 weeks of exposure and his claim is that he has never had anything and not anything within the last 2 weeks. I am a 29 year old male. Recently, NFL quarterback Michael Vick was sued by Sonya Elliot, a 26 year-old Georgia woman who claimed the football player had infected her with herpes after an unprotected sexual encounter in 2003.
Also, remember that the correct answer is not necessarily always the one you may want to read, but it is important that I give you the most legally correct answer for your situation based on the facts you have provided, so please be courteous when deciding whether to accept an answer and when leaving feedback. One must know he or she is HIV positive, not disclose this to the partner, and have specific intent to infect the partner. If he didn’t and we stayed together, I might not be able to deliver children vaginally, and would have to explain the need for a c-section to friends and family. I know there are thousands of posts similar to mine but I just told my boyfriend of about 9 months I have Herpes type 2 and that i’ve had it for over 4 years. Well I hoped I didnt until about 2 months later I had another outbreak and I knew something was wrong. After that night we continued having sex but I encouraged him to wear a condom but as time went by we just didn’t use them. Im just heartbroken because it was someone I cared 4 a lot and now I have to live with this.
When I was dating my husband, I told him that I had to tell him something while we were on the phone. We broke up a few weeks ago, and now he is threatening legal action because I did not originally tell him about the herpes prior to any intercourse. Since I live an hour away from my gynecologist and was just looking for the most convenient way to get tested, I found a website that could send a lab order for the STD tests to my local walk-in lab, where I could get my blood drawn without having to make an appointment. I didnt know what it was, and my parents never told me either (although I have had coldsores for about half my life, go figure. I worry that when I am old, I will lie in a nursing home bed and suffer from painful sores before somebody notices and gives me my pills. He had sex with two of them, telling neither he had herpes and using protection with only one. It’s how Mark Wasserman and his wife, Sue, have been married 12 years without his having transmitted herpes to her.
When I got a divorce, I went and had the whole panel of tests, so I could say I had papers. Even if it is type 1 instead of type 2 it would still be genital and contagious to me if indeed i end up not having this in 4 months. According to court documents obtained by TMZ, she alleged that Humphries knew he had herpes when they were intimate and didn’t tell her. So you must ask your partner to get tested specifically for herpes since it’s not included on the general STI test. 17, the athlete’s lawyer told the judge his client denies having herpes and will be filing a counterclaim against the plaintiff, and maintains she filed the lawsuit to make money off of him. I still didn’t think i had herpes because my partner TESTED negative for herpes and all other stds. Telling someone that you have genital herpes may seem scary at first.
My doctor explained to me that unless you specifically ask to be tested for herpes they do not do it. I know it doesnt show if there is no outbreak, or if they don’t actively check the blood for it, and I know i could of got it before i met my boyfriend because it can be dormant for a long time. As many people with herpes don’t know they have it, they are unknowingly passing it along and that is why it is so common. Now, suppose I know I have herpes but I don’t tell my partner and my partner contracts herpes from me. Now I am not sure how to tell him knowing that he will deny he gave me herpes and he will leave me for sure. And, when you and he decided to be intimate and have unprotected sex, he is dealt with a bombshell that the first woman he slept with after his wife was a woman who had Herpes and didn’t tell him. I didn’t want to tell me parents but i told my sister and she helped me out a little to pay for the medications.
I remember crying to my bf saying i had herpes and u would think that u would hate the person for doing this to u. I am so afraid he is going to hate me and if he does, he has every right to because it is so awful what I did. But, I am afraid now, after the fact, that he is going to reallly hate me and may even sue me if he is infected with it. Genital herpes is a sexually transmitted infection (STI) , which has existed for thousands of years.