Hi, 9 days ago I was on vacation and had unprotected sex with a stranger.. You have worried about this far too long. If this applies to you and you had unprotected sex with a heterosexual partner of unknown status, please read on. im closing in on breaking 3 digits, though its a pretty hazy figure as i cant say i keep count. Even with a condom, can you still get an STD. It is too bad we don’t live in a society where we all carry cert cards showing that we are on this 3 month test routine so we can check on who we might sleep with, but… is it sure we could find blemishes on there face, even when they dont have an out break?
I know that my friend has HPV, yet it was his nonchalance at being a carrier, and also being an active sexual partner (with 3 chicks he was bragging to me about)- It made me feel sick to know that here was a knowingly infected man having sex with 3 other women, and they were having sex with god knows how many other men… I am now aware that I dodged consequences for a fair number of years because I made “smart” decisions. With the advertisement to assess each others reading it. Anyway, now that I have this STD and have gotten over the denial part while at the same time, keeping at bay relationships that could lead to intimacy, I have finally gotten myself to do some research, accept my diagnosis for the most part, and begin sharing about it with healthcare professionals. We did,with a condom, it was very brief, but that’s another story for another time. My clinic is the sexual health hub of West London and had been a haunt for most of my health conscious friends and boyfriends growing up, but I hadn’t visited the place in years. I’m putting my thoughts into words instead of keeping it in, all muddled and fearful.
There’s no way I wasn’t going to feel like a whore when I got gonorrhea. The change started a few days ago with all of you. I’ll do the same.” It might be an awkward topic to broach, and people will react differently.